bikerchick4God
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- Joined
- August 23, 2004
- Messages
- 36
- Reaction score
- 5
- Location
- Goose Creek SC
- City, State
- SC
- Year, Model & Trim Level
- 1994 Explorer XLT 2 WD
Sweet to have a place to go where women understand the tinkerin' chick! I go under the hood of my vehicles, get into the case of my PC, fix broken stuff around the apt. and ponder the fine line between helpless female and independant woman. I do like a manicure and putting on makeup. We are a diverse group - us wimmen - lol. I must say, I do have a problem with men who stand around and watch me under the hood without offering to help. I may be having mixed emotions about their meddling, but I think a man ought to at least offer to lend a hand. I had a b/f watch tv as I took down the ceiling fan and installed a new start switch! He never turned his attention my way... I'd much rather be paired with a man who gets down and dirty too. Must be why I'm still single! UGH!
I was a commercial painter for 2 yrs and had problems with a few of the male egos there. I had one foreman who asked me if I was interested in going to the bar after work on a Friday. I declined. Come Monday, the 'talk' about me was I was gay cos I didn't want anything to do with the foreman. I approached him and asked him to stop this nonsense. He told me to prove I liked guys by giving him a BJ! What a pig! I complained to the owner who inevitably sided with the foreman called me a troublemaker... Men can be so freakin bizarre!
Too many men in industry think we ought to be home cooking and cleaning and waiting for the them to get home; that we don't belong along side them in business.
I was an apprentice pipefitter for half a year in '96 and had an awesome foreman. I was hired at Cape Canaveral as my first job and my apprentice class-mates were livid! My foreman let me do my job and then some. He trusted that I was capable cos I proved myself. He also expected I'd be able to help unload a truck of carbon steel pipe! I loved it. Most of the apprentices started with residential plumbing as their first job. Unfortunately, my classmates didn't agree with my female presence. We had an instructor who showed up once a week if that, for our tue/thu class. I'd do the lessons at home and turn them in and leave. I left 3 classes early in 7 weeks and was 'told on' and therefore fired for not attending class. When the guys didn't show for class, there was no 'telling' on each other. It was horribly pathetic.
Enough of my grievance.
I sign off saying it's nice to have other women with similar interests. I'll be perusing the threads here to see what ya'll are sayin!
Thanks,
nancy
I was a commercial painter for 2 yrs and had problems with a few of the male egos there. I had one foreman who asked me if I was interested in going to the bar after work on a Friday. I declined. Come Monday, the 'talk' about me was I was gay cos I didn't want anything to do with the foreman. I approached him and asked him to stop this nonsense. He told me to prove I liked guys by giving him a BJ! What a pig! I complained to the owner who inevitably sided with the foreman called me a troublemaker... Men can be so freakin bizarre!
Too many men in industry think we ought to be home cooking and cleaning and waiting for the them to get home; that we don't belong along side them in business.
I was an apprentice pipefitter for half a year in '96 and had an awesome foreman. I was hired at Cape Canaveral as my first job and my apprentice class-mates were livid! My foreman let me do my job and then some. He trusted that I was capable cos I proved myself. He also expected I'd be able to help unload a truck of carbon steel pipe! I loved it. Most of the apprentices started with residential plumbing as their first job. Unfortunately, my classmates didn't agree with my female presence. We had an instructor who showed up once a week if that, for our tue/thu class. I'd do the lessons at home and turn them in and leave. I left 3 classes early in 7 weeks and was 'told on' and therefore fired for not attending class. When the guys didn't show for class, there was no 'telling' on each other. It was horribly pathetic.
Enough of my grievance.
I sign off saying it's nice to have other women with similar interests. I'll be perusing the threads here to see what ya'll are sayin!
Thanks,
nancy