Looks like I'm late as all get out posting on this thread.
First of all, let me wish the best to Spas!!!! I feel your pain girlfirend. Although we were never engaged, my X and I borke up after dating for 10 years!!!!!!
Time will become your bestfriend.....yadda, yadda, yadda. Just be strong and stay positive, you never know how things will turn out!! And ALWAYS, ALWAYS, remember...IT"S HIS LOSS!!!!
If I didn't think they'd bumb me outta the forum, I'd tell you what I really think about men and women , that have quarks about us.
Now I have my days, when I'm all flowered and dolled up. I'll even throw on perfume and war paint, buuuuuuuuuuuuuut I love my X, and I do as much of the work on it as I can. I own a 4-wheeler, I love my beer out of a bottle, I smoke a cigar every now-and-then, I love sports, I love blue jeans, I don't mind getting dirty, I hunt, I fish (even put on my own worms), and I LOVE MEN!!!
If I had a dollar for everytime some chick smirked, because I stayed with the guys will all the chicks talked nails and hair, I'd be rich!!! SCREW UM!!! This is me so deal with it!!!! Funny though, some of these are the same chicks that call me when there car is making that funny noise..."what do you think it could be?". Hmmm, I guess I'm not too masculine then huh?